“That won’t last very long, she is too scared…”

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My younger brother has always been the athlete in the family.  When he was 5 years old and saw the diving team practicing at the local pool, he got up on the 1-meter diving board and flipped off. Needless to say, the coach was impressed and invited him to join the diving team.

Daphne (8) and Edwin (6) after winning their first competition

Daphne (8) and Edwin (6) after winning their first competition

A few months later (after he had actually learned to swim) he joined the diving team.  Since I was only 7 years old, when my Mom took my brother to the pool, I had to go with them.  After a few weeks of watching all this diving, I asked my Mom if I could dive as well.

My parents consented, thinking “That won’t last very long, she is too scared…”  They were only half right.

I WAS scared.  Although I loved to jump in, learning to dive off a 3 meter diving board and learning flips terrified me. But somehow, I was able to overcome this fear.

Each time it was time to learn a new dive, the butterflies in my stomach started before I even got to the pool.  Once on the pool deck, my heart bounced out of my chest and I would hope that today would NOT be the day to try a new dive.

Sometimes it took me weeks to try it, only to find out that once I tried it, it wasn’t so bad.  Of course I made plenty of belly flops and had the bruises to prove it.  But the mere act of overcoming that fear and trying the dive gave me the confidence that I could do it.

I realized that my main fear was of the unknown.  I didn’t know what the outcome would be, how my body would react and what the dive would “feel” like.

Fear Of The Unknown

Fear of the unknown is what holds most people back from trying anything new.

Whether it is standing in front of an audience presenting your expertise or learning new technologies so that you can do webinars, videos and have an online presence, it is most likely your fear of the unknown that is holding you back.

Sometimes you have to just dive in before you think you know it all or before you think you are ready.  You have to trust first; the confidence comes later.

Behind the Scenes of the Parade of Nations

My brother and I with US Basketball player Charles Smith at the 1988 Olympics

I was able to trust in my coaches to the point that I represented my country in the Olympics alongside my brother.

The fear never really goes away, but it becomes easier to manage.  I am still scared to try new things.  But I know that like the Olympics, success comes to those who conquer their fears and get outside their comfort zone.

What do you need to get outside your comfort zone and conquer your fear?  I know that hosting your own events can be scary as well.  That is why I want to take away your fear of the unknown by answering your burning questions on a FREE call on February 28th.

Get all the details, including how you can ask your question to be answered on the call at http://eventstrategysolutions.com/burningquestions.


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Daphne Bousquet, CMP

Daphne Bousquet, CMP

For more strategies to make your workshops and seminars more profitable, you’ll want to pick up a copy of the free report "Three Simple Secrets To Making 10K In A Day With Small Workshops." Daphne Bousquet uses her 20+ years of event industry experience to create profitable event strategies and marketing for coaches, entrepreneurs, speakers and self employed professionals that want to grow their businesses with workshops and seminars. She is the creator of the Butts In Seats Virtual Boot Camp, a unique digital course that teaches you how to fill your events with your ideal audience.
Daphne Bousquet, CMP
Daphne Bousquet, CMP
Daphne Bousquet, CMP

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